Ever wonder why some people seem to just be naturally popular? A lot of people spend their whole lives trying to find the secret formula to get people to like them.
But it’s really not that hard. If you’ve ever wanted to know how to be popular, then today’s video for is for you.
How to be Popular (it’s super Easy!)- Video Transcript
What do you think of when you think of a popular girl? Usually in high school, the girls that are popular are the ones that are kind of like in that movie mean girls. You know, they’re like really stuck up and they’re just too cool for school.
Fortunately that’s not the case for real life, once you leave high school being popular means something very different.
I’m Danielle Ford the founder of young moms club where young moms go to empower themselves and design their perfect lives and in today’s video we’re talking about how to be popular so keep watching.
“Being popular is actually really easy, it’s almost too easy. The secret is to just to be yourself.” -Click to Tweet this
Whatever weirdness or little quirks you have, just let them show.
You see, people like people who they can tell are just being their authentic selves, even if the person that they’re being isn’t the same as they are. People have really good intuition and most of the time, people can pick up on when people are being a phony balogna and they’re just being totally fake.
Now if you feel like you’re being like that, if you feel like you have to put on an act sometimes to be a certain way to fit in with a certain group of people, it can be really hard to change that. You see, when people see you starting to change and starting to be your unique awesome authentic self, it makes them feel a little weird, it can actually be a little intimidating. And when people start to see you becoming this, they start to treat you like you’re a weirdo. But at the same time that the people that you usually hang out with start to think you’re kinda weird, you also start to attract people who are a lot like you. And then you’ll attract even more people. And before you know it, you fit in with everybody and you become super popular.
The actually definition of popular is: To be liked, admired or enjoyed by many people, by a particular person or by a group of people.
Ok, that is definitely NOT a mean girl!
Now I wanna know, what are some ways that you are unique? I’ll tell you a few of mine..
- The first one is that I live in Vegas but I’m not really into clubs, I don’t really like to go out and party. And that is tough sometimes when people, friends from my past, high school that I used to hang out with, wanna go party and I’m just not into it.
- I’m also a really huge dork and I have a finger mustache tattoo. It’s true.
- Also I love poker. I love love love poker. And a lot of my girlfriends don’t get it. Some of them, I’ve tried to teach them poker and have girls nights and all this stuff and some of them like it and some of them are interested but the majority just do not get it and think I’m a total weirdo for liking poker. But they also think that’s cool. I’m the friend with the finger mustache that plays poker. And they respect me for it and they know that I’m being myself.
So there’s 3 of my unique quirks. Now I wanna know three of yours so leave them in the comments below.
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P.S. Did you miss last week’s video? Check it out here —->How to Dream Big when you live in a Small World