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Going from Teen Mom to Super Strong

Teen moms have the potential to become some of the strongest women in the world.

That’s a hefty claim but I stand behind it 100%.

maltese puppyThe reason is because it is impossible to become strong without going through many challenges.

Just like you go to the gym and struggle through a workout to build a muscle, you work through personal struggles to become emotionally stronger.

And teen moms go through a TON of struggles.. can I get an Amen??

In today’s video, I’m going to explain all the reasons why you need to break down first in order to get stronger and tell you the formula that you need to be able to fully heal.

 

“Teen moms have the potential to become some of the strongest women in the world.” -Click to Tweet this out!

Now take a minute to leave a comment and tell me what kind of struggle you’re in and what you are going to do to come out of it stronger than you’ve ever been.

<3 Danielle

 

 

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The Secret to Success is having a Great Threesome

secret to success picWanna know what the Secret to Success is?

It’s having an awesome threesome.

I’m serious!!

Watch today’s video to find out why I love having threesomes and how you can plan yours out, too!

OK So now if you watched the video or if you skipped ahead (cheater!) then you know that your Threesome is your Mentor, Role Model and Cheerleader.

But before you go, I want to know from you which of these roles you already have in place and which you still need to seek out. Let’s chat about it in the comments.

Here’s to your success, beautiful!! <3 Danielle

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Most of your Thoughts are WRONG!

I don’t know about you, but my mind goes a mile a minute. If I would ever go to a doctor, she’d probably diagnose me with severe ADHD.

law of attraction danielle fordI just can’t help it, though. I try to calm the monkey in my mind. I meditate. It helps. But still, I’m constantly being bombarded with random thoughts.. and this is bad for 2 reasons.

1) It can make it tough for me to focus.

and..

2) Most of the thoughts I have (and you have.. and everyone has..) are UNTRUE.

And to be able to find your strengths, set goals, go after your dreams and all those big things you want to do, first and foremost you have to separate your untrue thoughts from your true thoughts.

I know I might sound a little coo-coo right now but I’ll explain more in today’s video and I’ll give you examples of some thoughts that pop in my head.

Don’t judge me.

OK so now that it all makes sense (I hope!), I want to know what kind of thoughts you have that aren’t true. What are you going to do to separate them?? Lemme know and let’s chat about it! <3 Danielle

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The #1 way to make your Relationship last Forever

I recently realized that I was no longer “in love” with my boyfriend, so I told him.

relationships danielle fordHe totally understood and didn’t break up with me. Yay!!

 

Lucky for me, he knows the #1 thing that matters to make a relationship last.

 

Watch the video and I’ll explain more..

If you loved the quote as much as I did, then Tweet it to your friends… “Love is as much of a Decision as it is a Feeling.”

So what did you think about today’s video? Leave a comment and we’ll chat about it. <3 Danielle

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Can you be a Good Mom and Drink Alcohol?

I grew up in 2 different homes.

In one home, drinking alcohol was the norm. All the adults did it. All of the time.

In the other home, Alcohol was the DEVIL. Like seriously, don’t drink or you’ll go straight to Hell.

 

moms drinkingAs you can imagine, I grew up pretty confused about this topic.

Nowadays I fall somewhere in the middle between both beliefs. I don’t think alcohol is bad and I also don’t think you should drink all the time.

But when it comes to being a mom, it’s a whole other story.

Is it OK to drink?

Is it OK to go out and drink?

Is it OK to drink around the kids?

In today’s video, I share with you the 3 codes that I follow when it comes to drinking.

Now, I wanna know what you think.. How do you feel about drinking? How about drinking around kids? Lemme know in the comments below!

<3 Danielle

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Is your Ex Threatening to take the Kids?

Let me guess.. you split with your baby daddy and now he’s threatening to take the kids.. Sound familiar?

ex threatening to take kids danielle fordBig shocker there! Never heard that one before! ..oh wait.. yes, I have. A million times.

My ex threatened to take my kids. Then I got full custody. My friends ex’s threatened to take their kids. They got full custody.

It’s always the same story. The mom is struggling, the dad makes more money and is more stable and now he’s threatening with attorneys and judges and says he’s going to take the kids away.

::yawn:: can these dads come up with some new material please?

In today’s video, we’re talking all about how to handle it if your ex is threatening to take the kids.


If you need some actual family law advice, then go here to sign up for the free call.

I hope this helps! Be sure to send to any friends who you think might need to hear this.. <3 Danielle

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My #1 Beauty Secret (That costs around $12!)

Normally my Figure It Out Friday videos are a little bit more umm… important than this one is.

I usually cover topics like self care, and going after your goals and getting confidence, but I’m always getting asked what I use on my skin and hair.

beauty secret coconut oil picSo today I’m letting you in on my #1 beauty secret and believe it or not, it costs me around $12 a month.

Ok.. I can’t contain myself, I’ll tell you what it is now.. it’s…. COCONUT OIL!!

I am freaking obsessed with coconut oil. I use it in the bedroom, in the bathroom, in the kitchen, in the sun. It replaces things in my medicine cabinet. I use it for the dog. I could go on and on but I already did that in the video 🙂

In today’s video I’ll explain exactly how I use coconut oil, what the benefits are and why it’s not just a beauty product but a health product as well..


So now I want to know from you, are you gonna go out and get ya some coconut oil?

Do you already use it and love it? Do you use it for anything I missed? Let me know in the comments!

Here’s to your beauty and health!
<3 Danielle

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How to turn down a Date

I have a long distance boyfriend, so a lot of times when I go to events or out with friends, it appears that I’m single and guys will ask me out and I’ll be in that awkward situation where I have to say “No”. It also doesn’t help that I don’t wear a ring. (Hint: Boyfriend, if you’re reading this!)

::crickets::  ::awkward silence::

Actually though, when I was married and I wore a ring, I still sometimes got hit on! Some guys look at a wedding ring as challenge. We call these ones “douchebags”. Even though I could just hold up my ring finger and say “Married!” it was still uncomfortable to have to turn guys down.

dating danielle ford picBut the worst times I’ve gotten asked out would have to be be when I was single. Sometimes I was just barely surviving, trying to get myself together and not focused on dating. Sometimes I just didn’t want to go out with the dude.

Regardless, once again I was put into that uncomfortable situation of having to say, “No.”

I wish that during my marriage and after my divorce I knew the right way to turn down a date. It would’ve saved me a lot of stress and wasted energy.

In today’s video, I’m going to tell you how most girls turn down a date, which is the absolute wrong way.

I’ve been guilty of this many times. Thankfully I figured it out and when I get asked out and have to decline, I do it without hurting anyone’s ego or feelings and I feel really good about it afterwards. No more awkwardness.

Watch the video to learn how to turn down a date..


Now I wanna know about your awkward dating proposals.. When’s the most uncomfortable-est you’ve felt when turning down a date? Any creepers?? How did you handle them?

Let’s chat about it!

If you liked this video, be sure to share with a friend who you think would like it, too! 🙂

<3 Danielle

How to get Confidence & go after your Dreams

In today’s FIOF, a member wrote in to me asking how it’s possible to go after big dreams while taking care of a baby.

She was also upset that her friends don’t understand what she’s going through and don’t want to hang out with her.

All of this is giving her low self esteem and lack of confidence.

I did my best to answer all her questions in today’s video.

If this sounds like you or is something you can relate to, give it a watch!

If you’ve been through it and have more advice that I left out, please leave it in the comments for her.

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Why Independence is OverRated

Independence- It’s what we all strive for, right?

One of the common things that women say they want is to be independent. Because that’s when they’ll know they “made it”.

I’m gonna say something kinda crazy now, please bear with me, but independence isn’t what everyone should be striving for.

It’s actually pretty overrated.

I’ll explain more in the video..

 

Now that you’ve watched, do you “get” what I mean? Do you agree?

Leave your 3 things in the comments…

<3 Danielle